What is the best divorce solution for your family? Collaborative Divorce or Mediation?

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Campbell Family Law helps clients divorce differently because they deserve better choices in the outcome.  We only work in the out-of-court processes of mediation, collaborative divorce, and collaborative mediation to provide clients with the flexibility they need and want without the spectacle or tragedy that a litigated divorce often is.

Campbell Family Law prepares and empower clients to live their new liberated life to the fullest.

Collaborative Divorce

Stage One: Committing to the Process → Stage Two: Information Gathering → Stage Three: Brainstorming Options → Stage Four: Negotiating Solutions → Stage Five: Reaching an Agreement

Stage One: Committing to the Process
Stage Two: Information Gathering
Stage Three: Brainstorming Options
Stage Four: Negotiating Solutions
Stage Five: Reaching an Agreement

Collaborative Divorce is a legal process enabling couples who have decided to separate or end their marriage to work with their lawyers and other professionals to avoid the uncertain outcome of court decisions and to achieve a settlement that best meets the specific needs of both parties and their children.

Mediation

Stage One: Neutral Mediator → State Two: Information Sharing → Stage Three: Negotiating with Parties → Stage Four: Final Agreement

Stage One: Neutral Mediator
State Two: Information Sharing
Stage Three: Negotiating with Parties
Stage Four: Final Agreement

Mediation is a dynamic, structured, interactive process where a neutral third party assists disputing parties in resolving conflict through the use of specialized communication and negotiation techniques. As a mediator Ms. Campbell also prepares the documents the court requires to finalize a dissolution to insure each couples’ agreements are enforceable should that prove necessary.

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Child Custody

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In California, the driving force for any custody discussion or decision is, what is in the best interests of the child? The best-interests discussion revolves around the child’s health, safety, and welfare. These broad categories leave a lot of room for both parents’ (perhaps very different) views.

Often parents disagree about what is in the child’s best interests or they focus on what is best for the parent rather than the child. The collaborative divorce and mediation processes incorporate discussions with both parents about what their child needs rather than looking at the parenting from the perspective of one parent at a time. We work to help both parents understand the child’s needs from the child’s perspective and the perspective of the other parent. Parents who think about co-parenting from a child centered-perspective are often much more successful in identifying common goals and reaching agreements.

Research shows it is very important for both parents to have quality time with their children. When one parent does not spend quality time with their children it can create short and long-term problems for the child. Parents who cannot facilitate the child’s relationship with the other parent can suffer negative consequences on a literal and practical level. For a child’s self-esteem, when one parent is not present or participating on a significant level, it can raise doubt in that child’s mind as to their own self-worth. Children may assume that they are the reason that that parent is not present. On a literal level, a parent’s unwillingness to help the child’s relationship with the other parent may be used by a court to justify reducing the parenting time of the unhelpful parent.

There are times when it is not in a child’s best interest to spend time with a parent who is abusive, has a substance abuse problem, has mental or physical health issues or other behaviors that may require a different approach. However, in the absence of such factors, children typically benefit from the involvement of both parents.

At Campbell Family Law, we help parents reach agreements regarding their parenting responsibilities and co-parenting agreements. After the parents reach a decision, the agreements are written down so that both parents have a written record of the parenting plan. These agreements typically become a court order or part of the judgment. The written document needs to be detailed enough to reflect the agreed-upon default terms related to the various common aspects of co-parenting but flexible enough to allow parents to make their own alternative agreements when the default plan does not work for the child or the parents.